Relationship Compatibility

Graphology can lead the way to meaningful relationships for couples, families and at work (and help prevent heartaches en route).

Relationship failure can be attributed to many things but lack of understanding is one of the most common reasons. For relationships to last successfully the ultimate aim must be to achieve some level of compatibility. If there is an awareness and recognition of each other's different approaches to life and points of view then harmony can be achieved. This does not mean sameness, or loss of identity, but mutual respect.

When you meet someone for the first time can you really tell what makes them tick? People are attracted to others for many, different reasons - 'eyes across a room', 'share the same interests', 'so funny', 'so positive', etc. It is well known that personal chemistry may affect judgement. Handwriting analysis can assist you by providing insights that are not always obvious through the spoken word or body language.

The following examples indicate to the graphologist types of emotional response:

Right slant, medium pressure - enjoys social events and would be best suited to being with others

Upright, heavy pressure - composed, objective, independent; enjoys company but doesn't mind being alone

Left slant, medium pressure - cautious, reserved, creative; even though friendly may experience inner difficulties truly relaxing with others

When two people meet they are usually on their 'best' behaviour and their different approaches to life are not always apparent. More often than not their true nature isn't revealed until they have become familiar with each other. Couples can express themselves in different ways that reinforce a relationship and not destroy it.

Handwriting analysis can help not only couples but also families and work colleagues understand why problems can occur. It can provide a basis for building healthy and meaningful relationships by revealing emotional responses and depth of feelings, among many other things. With this knowledge difficulties, even separation, can be resolved or avoided.

The following is an example from part of a report:

This is an extract from the conclusion to the report:

Outwardly she appears to be controlled and composed but this belies her inner feelings of self-doubt and personal inadequacies. Her direct, no nonsense approach to life often does not sit well with others but she is shrewd enough to temper her opinions, preferring to keep her own counsel rather than engage in conflict. She is a determined individual who will achieve all that she sets out to, sometimes driving herself slavishly to that end but never at the expense of her duties or friendships.